Erectile Dysfunction
 You
wouldn't think twice about going to a physician for treatment
of headaches or allergies; erectile dysfunction is also a
medical condition, one that affects the quality of life. To
understand erectile dysfunction, it helps to learn more about
the process of sexual arousal. Sexual arousal begins in the
brain. Sexual thoughts trigger nerve impulses, which travel
down to the penis. These nerve impulses relax the blood vessels
of the penis and allow the heart to pump much more blood in.
The rapid flow doesn't permit the blood flow to go back into
the body, so the penis gets hard. Some causes of failure of
the process can include not enough hormones, problems in the
sexual relationship, interference by certain medications,
some medical conditions like diabetes, health habits like
smoking, or stress.
If erectile dysfunction affects your life, talk with your doctor.
Some things to note:
When a man has ED, his partner is almost always affected too. Experts agree
that ED is a couple's problem-one that can best be solved by both partners working
together. If your partner has ED, here are some ways
you can help:
Talk it over. Good communication is the foundation for an enduring relationship.
It's important for couples to confront any concerns they may have about ED by
discussing their feelings and reassuring each other that they still care.
Reassure your partner that he is not alone. Remind him that millions of men
have ED. Explain that ED is a treatable medical condition and does not mean
he has a problem with his masculinity.
Learn as much as you can about the condition and the treatment options. The
best treatment for ED is one that you both agree will fit comfortably and naturally
into your lovemaking. Also, if your partner needs to change his lifestyle to
treat ED, such as quitting smoking, try to support and encourage his efforts.
Offer to go with him to his doctor's appointment. Some men prefer to deal with
ED with no help from their partner. But generally, couples who work together
have the best chance of successful treatment.
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